Life is much deeper than it may seem at first glance, and nothing happens by chance. Everything, including our gender, has meaning and purpose. The challenges and circumstances we face may be influenced by our past lives, guiding us to address unresolved lessons in our current one.
How Past Lives Affect Us
Have you ever wondered why one woman seems to enjoy life, is in a happy relationship, and receives gifts, while another is struggling with multiple jobs and burdens? It might seem unfair, but there is a reason. Some would say, “She made her choices and got what she deserved.” But the real answer may be rooted in past life experiences and karmic lessons.
For example, consider two young girls: one is raised like a princess, loved, cherished, and cared for, while the other faces hardship, abuse, and neglect. How could their destinies be so different when they haven’t done anything to deserve it? This leads us to the understanding that our past lives leave an imprint, and our current circumstances are shaped by the spiritual work we need to do.
The universe, or the divine, operates on a set of principles and laws, and our gender is given to us based on the lessons we need to learn in this particular incarnation.
Signs You Need to Work on Femininity in This Life
- You have a difficult relationship with your mother. Your mother might be the opposite of what femininity represents, setting an anti-example for you to follow.
- You don’t accept or like your body. You struggle with body image, constantly wanting to change or improve it, feeling uncomfortable in your own skin.
- Your relationships with men don’t work out. You find it challenging to build healthy, balanced relationships with male partners.
- Men don’t give you attention, compliments, or help. You might feel invisible to men, and they don’t offer you the care or appreciation that other women seem to receive.
- You attract toxic partners. Your relationships tend to involve men who are abusers, freeloaders, or overly dependent on their mothers.
- You don’t have close female friends. Your social circle is either predominantly male, or you find yourself isolated without any friends at all.
- Your job feels like a burden. You work multiple jobs just to make ends meet, or your job drains you and brings no satisfaction.
- Life feels like a constant struggle. Everything comes through hard work, you always feel like you have to prove yourself, and your desires rarely come true.
- You are always tense and find it hard to relax. Your mind is constantly racing with thoughts, and it’s difficult for you to unwind.
- You feel more masculine than feminine. This is the most telling sign—your inner self feels like it has more masculine energy than feminine. Trust your inner voice—it never lies.
How to Restore Femininity
If you were born in a woman’s body, that is your first clue on how to fulfill your purpose in this life. If you feel more masculine, but are a woman, your spiritual task is to cultivate and expand your feminine energy. The ideal balance is thought to be 60-70% feminine energy and 30-40% masculine. Your current excess of masculine energy should be reduced, and the feminine energy you need to develop will complement the masculine, leading to balance.
Energy doesn’t disappear or replace itself; it adds to what already exists. By tapping into and expanding your feminine potential, you’ll enter a journey of self-discovery, leading to a profound and beautiful connection with your true self. This journey aligns you with your divine essence and helps you fulfill your soul’s purpose in this life.
How to Start
Begin by asking yourself a simple but profound question: What kind of woman do I want to be? Your inner voice will guide you with the answers. All you need to do is listen and follow its guidance.
Through this process, you will open the door to a deeper understanding of yourself, and that is the first step toward embracing your femininity and thriving in your authentic self.