We all come into this life to fulfill our karmic tasks, to grow, develop new qualities, and, like in a video game, reach the next level. It’s crucial to understand what these lessons are and when they occur, so we can be prepared to face them with dignity and as painlessly as possible. After all, karma catches up with everyone, without exception.
Beliefs like “it’s just fate,” “people can’t change,” or “accept me as I am” can lead to major crises and difficult trials during certain periods of life. This happens because karmic lessons have their own timing and purpose.
Let’s explore which periods in life are the most significant and why.
Life’s Major Milestones
Great spiritual leaders often divide human life into two main parts: before 36-40 years and after. The first half of life is considered the “student” phase—a time when we learn, discover ourselves, gain experience. After 40, it’s believed that a person becomes a mature individual with more responsibilities to give back, share, and pass on their knowledge.
Each part of our lives has its milestones, much like levels or exams in a video game. Before 40, these key ages are 18-19 years, 27-28 years. After 40, the crucial ages are 45-46 years, 56-57 years, and 75-76 years.
During these years, individuals often face challenges, typically in specific areas of life (career, health, relationships, children), where it’s important to react differently. Numerology or astrology can provide insight into the specific lessons one might face. For instance, if a person is prone to arrogance, these years might bring situations that require them to humble themselves to avoid societal rejection or isolation.
Or, if someone struggles with jealousy, they might face relationship challenges that require them to rewrite their relationship dynamics, fostering more trust in their partner and the world.
The main theme is to become more conscious, flexible, and capable of self-transformation.
The Critical Life Reset Between Ages 35 and 40
The most critical period in every person’s life is between 35 and 40 years old. This age acts as a constant—a point where much has already been experienced, and karma begins to “breathe down your neck,” helping you make the crucial “transition from student to master.”
It’s important to understand that destiny (or karma) does not aim to punish or harm us. On the contrary, it seeks to reach us and change what needs reform. This is why events during these key periods can unfold painfully and dramatically. As the saying goes, “Life leads the obedient, but drags the disobedient.”
What Happens Between 35 and 37 Years Old?
Let’s turn to history. What do Mozart, Marilyn Monroe, and Princess Diana have in common? They all passed away between the ages of 35-37. Coincidence? Not at all. They were unable to fully embrace their destiny and complete their karmic lessons.
As Beethoven wrote in his Fifth Symphony, “Fate knocks at the door,” and while some open it to make their transition into maturity, others do not. When this happens, the soul is left with no choice but to reincarnate in a new life.
To avoid missing your chance and to navigate these transitional stages as painlessly as possible, it’s essential first to acknowledge their existence. But it’s also important to follow the laws of the universe, avoid harming yourself and others, refrain from revenge or destruction, and not burden your life. Additionally, understanding your specific challenges during these years is key.
Always analyze difficult stages, ask yourself, “What can I do today to make tomorrow different?” and remain open to internal transformation. Only then can you stay on good terms with your destiny and avoid self-sabotage.