What leads people to break agreements in relationships? Researchers from Reichman University and the University of Rochester set out to uncover the truth. Their findings reveal a surprising factor that can undermine even the strongest partnerships.
The Study: Power Dynamics and Infidelity
The researchers conducted a series of experiments involving more than 600 individuals in monogamous relationships. Participants were asked to recall instances when they felt a sense of power or superiority over their partner. They then completed tasks such as imagining fantasies about a stranger, evaluating photos of unknown individuals, or reflecting on their emotions after interacting with an attractive person.
Key Findings
The results were striking: participants who felt more powerful in their relationships were significantly more likely to show interest in others outside their partnerships.
According to Professor Harry Reis, one of the study’s authors, a sense of power and significance often amplifies the desire to break commitments.
“Power can create a dangerous illusion of entitlement, leading individuals to seek novelty and excitement beyond their relationships,” said Reis.
Why Power Can Lead to Infidelity
The study highlights that powerful individuals—whether leaders, public figures, or those simply feeling superior in their relationships—may view themselves as more desirable and capable of “getting away with more.” This perception of entitlement can diminish the importance of commitment and loyalty.
Real-Life Examples
Historical scandals, such as Bill Clinton’s affair with Monica Lewinsky or Tiger Woods’ serial infidelity, align with the study’s conclusions. In such cases, a strong sense of influence or superiority appeared to foster feelings of invincibility, weakening the sense of obligation in their relationships.
Everyday Power Dynamics
The phenomenon isn’t confined to celebrities or high-profile individuals. The researchers observed similar patterns in everyday situations.
One phase of the study involved tracking participants over three weeks. They recorded daily interactions, including moments of flirting or attraction to others. The findings were consistent: participants who felt more powerful expressed greater interest in short-term flings.
A Complex Picture
Despite the clear link between power and infidelity, the researchers emphasize that the root cause is often deeper than individual personality traits.
Relationship Dynamics Matter
Feeling superior may act as a catalyst for cheating, but underlying relationship issues often play a crucial role. A lack of communication, emotional connection, or unresolved conflicts can pave the way for infidelity when power dynamics come into play.